@ResearchCat I tend to agree with that about being the biggest flex. I think that's what all these women I've been meeting and attracting have been attracted to. When I am out and about and look at other men my age, all I see is how unfit they are, are unkempt and put no effort in how they look, so I think I standout because I do in comparison to them. Then when we get to know each other better in these settings, they are surprised that I don't have the "baggage" of not being previously married or kids. But like I said above, I've also attracted my share of toxic women who I am drawn to and created a lot of chaos in my life.
And regarding married women. It's flattering and tempting and all, but I won't go there. I behave. I don't want to be on the other side of that situation one day in the future if I do get married.

), but if you know your test is tanking because of lifestyle issues, try to solve that organically before you spend a ton of money on peps and other stuff.

